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I’m Done with Broken

By March 6, 2015 10 Comments

During Lent, I expect to hear about sin and suffering, but I’m starting to get tired of the word “broken.” Also “brokenness,” “broken world,” “broken people,” and “messy, broken world/people.”

Overused words descend into cliché, and I think we might be approaching that territory here.

To support my case, I present evidence.

I discovered 63 quotations tagged “brokenness” on Goodreads.

The phrase “broken people” is the title of a song by Jane’s Addiction, and a featured lyric in the refrain of a song by Twenty-One Pilots. A Mark Bishop song assures us that “God Builds Churches with Broken People.”

Meanwhile, blogs offer both advice and warning. It’s true that “God uses broken people.” However, “Broken people can be a whirlpool” and it’s wise to remember that “Fixing broken people is tricky.”

Christian authors and leaders have plenty to say. Sheila Walsh has a 2012 book called God Loves Broken People. DJ Wilson is suggesting on HuffPost that “Broken People Apply Here.” Chip Ingram would like to help us with “understanding our broken-world experiences.” Rick Warren offers advice about “Living in a Broken World.” Coincidentally, so does Philip Yancey. And so does Kevin Ruffcorn in his sermon on Mark 13, handily available on Sermon Central.

Our Mormon friends apparently have similar brokenness problems, at least according to one Mormon blogger, who notes that the church is messy and broken, the world is messy and broken, and even “Christ on the cross was messy and broken.”

Please note that broken people are not to be confused with “broke people,” who exhibit a different, though overlapping, set of behaviors.

This whole brokenness trend is not confined to the Christian world, by any means. There’s a Broken People Clothing company, a TheseBrokenPeople YouTube channel, and a Broken People Pinterest page. Human Rights Watch would like you to know that the broken people phenomenon has gone international.

I admit that in Christian circles, the word “broken” has been useful for certain purposes. I bet you’ve used it in a prayer. I know I have.

It’s a way of acknowledging that we’re not perfect, which is undoubtedly appropriate, but if we must rehearse this fact, then perhaps we could do so with a wider variety of terms.

Among the words we can use, it’s true that “broken” does evoke our pain, our woundedness, the way we are hurt by others and by sin-pervaded systems, and thus the word can prompt appropriate compassion. Also, “broken” suggests that we might be fixed, which is one way to talk about redemption. I guess.

Nevertheless, at this point, I think the word has devolved into a fashionable shorthand. And sometimes, I have to say, I hear just a whiff of self-congratulation in its use, because it can signal that we’re empathetic and in touch with “real” Christianity, or that we’re hip to people’s authentic pain (another buzzword). We’re wearing the Jesus sandals instead of the plastic smiles. I’m pretty sure I myself have tried to convey that I know about the world’s suffering because I could say the phrase “broken world” with an earnest, pained expression.

It’s so poignant, it’s almost… beautiful. God loves this “beautiful, broken world.” After all, brokenness is so human and we’re just so beautiful in our brokenness, aren’t we?

That might be the more serious issue here. “Broken” is a little too pretty. It’s too weak a word to hold up the weight of sin’s magnitude. “Broken” seems to sidestep culpability and evil. Jesus did not say to the Pharisees, “Oh, you beautiful, broken people. How very human you are!” He did say “Father, forgive them,” but he also called the Pharisees a brood of vipers. He lamented over Jerusalem’s stubborn unbelief. Even the people he compassionately healed got exhorted to go and sin no more.

Boko Haram is not just “broken.” Government corruption in Russia or Nicaragua is more than “broken.” Child abusers are not sufficiently described by “broken.” Anyone who has prayed and pleaded for a mentally ill loved one will agree that “brokenness” does not begin to cover their condition.

I know we need shorthands, but I wonder if “broken” is getting a little lazy, a little reductive. I wonder if “broken” allows us to avoid honest self-examination and less pleasant descriptors. We have plenty of other, more precise words to help us: wounded, diseased, sick, proud, blind, stiff-necked, nasty, rebellious, stupid, selfish, helpless, deceitful, finite, boneheaded, evil, sinful, vulgar, abusive, neglectful, lazy, greedy, idolatrous, wicked, crooked, depraved, and more. We have quite the range available. Maybe it takes some courage to use these words, but hey, it’s Lent. We should try to speak the truth.

If I’m “broken” then all I need is “fixing”—a little glue, a clamp, and there! Almost as good as new. That doesn’t sound sufficient either. I think I need to be sanctified and redeemed. I know it hurts more. But what is our goal here? To conform to the image of Christ, which is a way of saying that to be truly human is to live into the divine image—to be redeemed, transformed, re-created, whole.

There is a balm in Gilead for that, and I think I’ll head my Lenten steps in that direction.

Debra Rienstra

I am a writer and literature professor, teaching literature and creative writing at Calvin University, where I have been on the faculty since 1996. Born and bred in the Reformed tradition, I’ve been unable to resist writing four books about theological topics: beware the writer doing theology without a license. My most recent book is Refugia Faith: Seeking Hidden Shelters, Ordinary Wonders, and the Healing of the Earth (Fortress, 2022). Besides the books, I’ve written well over two hundred essays for the RJ blog as well as numerous articles, poems, and reviews in popular and scholarly contexts. I have a B.A. from the University of Michigan (Go Blue!) and a M.A. and Ph.D. from Rutgers. I am married to Rev. Dr. Ron Rienstra, and together we have three grown children. Besides reading and writing, I love classical music, science fiction, fussing in the yard, hiking, and teaching myself useful skills like plant identification and—maybe someday—drywall repair.


  • ptnitter says:

    This is wonderfully thought provoking Debra. Thank you.

  • Joe H says:

    Thank you for this blog article. I wasn’t receiving my regular dosage of the Twelve articles and realized something was missing! I thought I had signed up to continue my subscription even after the move to a new platform but I guess something must’ve happened in the transition. I wonder how many other people have experienced something similar. Personally, more people should be reading about the Twelve

  • Doug MacLeod says:

    I am helped by your clear thinking, delineations, and sound theology Debra. Thank you.

  • Alfred Ruggiero says:

    Thank you for this, Debra. Reminds me of my years in seminary, when the phrase of choice was “growing edges.”. I guess we didn’t have faults or sin back then, either!

  • Susan says:

    Ah Debra, well written, beautifully expressed. Thank you.

  • Steve Mathonnet-VanderWell says:

    “Everything Is Broken” by Bob Dylan, 1989. As usual Bobby is about 25 years ahead of the curve.

  • Jared Ayers says:


    I was saying “yes” out loud to myself as I read through this. Though I think that “broken/ness” is one compassionate way of picturing human wrong and the world’s wrong, to my mind it’s been worn thin in overuse to the point of meaningless cliche. Oftentimes, I think that using this word isn’t a lot more than linguistic laziness. And, the Christian story has such an expansive vocabulary with which to name the darkness, woundedness, and contradiction in us and in God’s creation.

    Thanks for this!

    And tell Ron hi for me.

  • Josh deLacy says:

    Growing up, my church’s vision statement was: “Building a Community of Grace by Transforming Broken People into Committed Followers of Jesus Christ” (I think the excessive capitalization was another way they tried to be hip to people’s authentic pain).

    The focus on “brokenness” made me feel guilty for not having any life-shattering, “brought me to God” catastrophe in my background.

  • Jerry VS says:

    Thanks, Debra. One more “broken” that we could use less of is that which occurs in the distribution of the bread in holy communion in most churches. Supposedly Jesus is being quoted when it is said: “This is his body broken for you.” Jesus never said that. Rather it appears he said: “This is my body ‘given’ for you.” His body was not to be broken, according to the prophets.

    Admittedly this may be a small complaint, but it grates a little each time it is heard.

    Jerry VS

  • Rich Rienstra says:

    Just a footnote to an engaging article–“Child abusers” and a “mentally ill loved one” are persons who are child abusers and persons who are mentally ill. I struggle at times with my own bad habit of identifying people solely by their sin or condition, rather than their shared humanity with me.

    You prompted me to look up in Young’s Concordance uses of “broken.” There are walls, vessels, bows, cords, arms, snares,idols, barns,cities,spirits,pitchers, people, ships, silver, gold, boughs, images, foundations, dwelling places and much more that are broken. Scripture points out more that we should be heartbroken for others. I like The Message in Psalm 51 “repair Jerusalem’s broken-down walls.” Throw in Isaiah’s chapter 61 to heal the heartbroken–poor and freedom to all captives. Lots of hearts out there that need healing beyond my transplant.

    Now that there is a doctor in the house (Ron) he can provide with you a balm for all of us. No more congestive and brokenhearted conditions that will prevent us from rebuilding the walls of the cities from Lent country to Ascension kingdom.

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