As I take in news reports about fearful immigrants in my community and around the country, I wonder how many of us know our own family immigration histories.
My father was firmly committed to family and shared with us what he knew of their journeys. He was the son of new immigrants, born in the now famous Springfield, Ohio, ninety-eight years ago. At that time, his mother was miserable. She spoke only Dutch and had no one to talk with except my grandfather, the man who had convinced her to cross the Atlantic in the belly of a ship. She gave him a choice: buy her passage back to the Netherlands or move to Michigan near other Dutch immigrants.
They soon moved to Michigan. The new home was helpful for my grandmother, but not for the whole family. When school started, my father was the boy who did not speak English. A few older boys constantly bullied him and threatened to shove his head into the outhouse toilet. He was miserable every single day, never daring to use the bathroom. As he lay dying eighty years later, he recalled those painful memories once again.
As the daughter of that oak tree of a man, I smile when I think of those bullies watching my father grow into a man with biceps that looked like grapefruits. Did they keep their distance, wondering if he would seek revenge some day? He could have but did not, despite the depth of the wounds those boys inflicted. The first time he shared those painful experiences with me was one day when I had shared some of the stories my immigrant students told during my decades of teaching English to language learners.
Fast forward to the news stories of today. A presidential candidate who aspires to lead this country is demonizing immigrants and falsely accusing them of crimes. Self-promoting candidates are intentionally putting the lives of children and their parents at risk because sadly, not everyone who hears them bothers to check whether or not their stories are true. Threats of putting someone’s head into an outhouse toilet were traumatizing, and so are death threats made by people who believe malicious falsehoods and carry automatic weapons.
Except for indigenous peoples, we are a nation built by immigrants. Being an immigrant, with or without documents, is hard work. My grandparents contributed three builders, three farmers, a Calvin Seminary grad, a nurse, and an artist to this country’s economy, just in the first generation.
The parents of my immigrant students worked at difficult, often low-paying jobs that few native born Americans wanted — installing roofs in the heat of summer, cleaning restaurant kitchens and restrooms, and pushing floor scrubbers in commercial buildings late at night. When I spent a few days in a hospital recently, at least half of the caregivers — nurses, physicians, technicians — spoke with an accent as they helped me regain my health. The politicians who demonize immigrants do not understand our economy or our American history and principles.
Emma Lazarus understood our country and the need for compassion toward immigrants. At the base of the Statue of Liberty, her poem “The New Colossus” reminds us of our calling as the descendants of immigrants.
Not like the brazen giant of Greek fame,
With conquering limbs astride from land to land;
Here at our sea-washed, sunset gates shall stand
A mighty woman with a torch, whose flame
Is the imprisoned lightning, and her name
Mother of Exiles. From her beacon-hand
Glows world-wide welcome; her mild eyes command
The air-bridged harbor that twin cities frame.
“Keep, ancient lands, your storied pomp!” cries she
With silent lips. “Give me your tired, your poor,
Your huddled masses yearning to breathe free,
The wretched refuse of your teeming shore.
Send these, the homeless, tempest-tost to me,
I lift my lamp beside the golden door!
If only we could see in the faces of those traveling to our borders a glimpse of our own immigrant ancestors. What kind of people would we hope might have greeted them? Maybe compassionate people of faith who knew that Jesus asked that we follow the example of the Good Samaritan? Maybe people who remembered that Jesus told us to feed hungry people and welcome strangers because doing it for them is the same as doing it for him?
As we look ahead to the privilege of voting, may we recommit ourselves to being communities and a nation with open arms and open hearts for the tired and poor of our world.
Liberty photo by Cody Fitzgerald on Unsplash
Thank you, Linda. Unfortunately immigration, like abortion, is likely to remain an unresolved hot-button issue. There is no desire to legislstively find a far better solution because the issue is too valuable as a political commodity, ripe for intentional distortion, blame, and fear. It is so sad to hear a shameless me-first attitude expressed by potential voters and influencers.
Hi Linda. So they moved from Springfield to the muck of Hudsonville, if I track you. I haven’t seen you since Bethany Memorial. Thanks for this, and I have to wonder what has happened to this country to make us so hateful of the vision and promise in Emma Lazarus’s words. And even some new immigrants are supporting Trump. It is spiritual, no doubt, collective unclean spiritual.
Thank you so much for writing this. It should be posted high on billboards across our nation!
I’ve done it twice. Immigrate. (Chalk it up to Providence.) Being an immigrant makes one a lifelong outsider—even when one’s skin color isn’t a factor. The benefit, however, is it gives one a much broader perspective on the world. I’ll take that over nativist provincialism any day.
Thank you Linda for this wonderful reminder how much immigrants have endured and how very much they contribute!
Thank you for sharing your family story, mine is similar. I’m so thankful and blessed. I’m also very sad that members of my extended family are so against immigrants.
One of the men who worked on a project in our yard this summer had just become a citizen. He was reluctant to talk much as he thought his English was still not good, and we only shared a few moments each hot afternoon over cold lemonade and cookies, but I have wondered since about his journey to this point. Men and women like him are part of the backbone of much of our economy, not political fodder.
“Go, therefore, and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of George Washington, Thomas Jefferson, and . . .” oops, no, I think I remembered that one wrong.
Thanks for this beautiful, vulnerable, family story, Linda. You have helped us remember.
This is a wonderful piece…..thank you. If only the people who really need to hear it would read it. I continually pray for our country, and what we are leaving our grandchildren.
I’m incredibly proud to called you my mother and for you and Dad’s ongoing examples of support to those who are vulnerable and in need of advocacy.
Your story reminded me of the 14-year old immigrant kid I was, three months off the boat when I joined a Christian school class, trying to blend in, to belong, to ignore the nasty name calling some sent my way on the school’s playground. It took a while. To this day my heart bleeds for the “huddled masses” whose desperate need for a place of refuge too often ends in rejection and despair.
Thanks for this, Linda!
How many anti-immigration people noticed that all six of the men killed while working to fix the bridge in Baltimore as it collapsed were immigrants? Or that the two attempts made on Trump’s life were made by white American men?
Thank you,
I agree with everything you say here and yet, our immigration system is a broken, tattered, patchwork compilation of decades of bills addressing issues one at a time with zero chance of actually fixing anything. It’s like playing wack-a-mole with people’s lives. If anyone actually wanted to address the problem with a real hope of solving anything, they’d root up the entire system from beginning to today and start over with our current situation. Anything less than that is tiresome BS that is simply political and destined for failure.
p.s. the next time anyone tells you “they” should just get in line and come the “legal” way, ask them what that way is, because the system is so messed up, I guarantee 99% of people have no idea what the legal way is or how restrictive and ridiculous it is.
Again, thank you for this honest reflection of what could be.
Thank you everyone for your thoughtful and poignant comments. Listening to the stories of immigrants provides a deeper understanding of both the pain they experience and the contributions they make to our country. I hope we can find ways to encourage those around us to learn about the immigrant stories in their own families.
And yes, our immigration system is broken. I remember the struggle of one of my teenage students whose parents went through our immigration system the “right way.” He was five when they emigrated to the US with work visas while he was left behind with grandparents. His visa finally came through when he was fifteen and could finally build a relationship with his parents and start to learn English. We need to stop treating immigration like a political hot potato and start working at the humanitarian issue it truly is.
Were Frank and Anita your parents, Linda? I resided in the Zutphen parsonage across the street from Julian and Agnes from 52-58, went to school daily with Jupe, and helped on the farm a bit.
Yes, they were. I have fond memories of that corner in Zutphen – playing in the barn and looking for wildflowers. Did you stay in touch with Jupe?
Sporadically only, I fear. They came to visit us once at our cottage on White Lake in Montague, and I learned of his passing in time to interact with several at the viewing at VdLaan’s in Hudsonville.